Private Martial Arts Instruction · NJ & NYC

Train smarter.
Feel safer.

Self Defense Lab offers private martial arts instruction grounded in practical reality — skills that work, taught at your pace.

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World-Class Lineage
Certified under one of the most respected martial arts institutions in the world.
All Levels
No fitness requirement. No prior experience needed. Training starts where you are.
Private & Personalized
Every session is built around your goals, your body, and your schedule.

Who This Is For

You don't need a background.
You need a reason.

Self Defense Lab is designed for people who want to feel capable, not competitive. My approach is to teach you practical, functional martial arts, and to encourage you to explore what works for you: for your age, your size, your body.

Complete Beginners

You've always been curious but never knew where to start — or you felt intimidated by group class culture. Private instruction removes all of that. We begin exactly where you are.

Returning Students

Life interrupted your training. You remember the fundamentals but need time to find your footing again. Sessions are paced to bring you back without rushing or risking injury.

Serious Learners

You want depth — real understanding of how these arts connect and why they work. You've been training for a while but want to experiment. You want skills that hold up under pressure, in real life.

I also offer women's self-defense, training for young people, and workshops for corporate teams and organizations. Inquire →


The System

Four arts.
One practical framework.

The curriculum draws from four proven martial traditions. You test techniques against your own body, your own strengths, your own real-world contexts. What works for you becomes your toolkit.

JKD teaches you to adapt rather than memorize, to find what functions efficiently for your body and environment. FMA-Kali teaches you how to use weapons (impact or edged) and to fight empty-hand, covering all ranges — it greatly improves your coordination, timing, and positioning. Silat teaches off-balancing through striking, addressing close-range control when space collapses. BJJ gives you more options to deal when people grab on to you, or when a situation ends up on the ground. Together, they cover the full spectrum of realistic encounters across different settings.

FMA - Kali Filipino Martial Arts
JKD Jeet Kune Do
Silat Maphilindo Silat
BJJ Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

What You'll Build

Skills you can feel
in everyday life.

Situational Awareness

You'll start reading rooms differently — noticing exits, understanding body language, recognizing when something is off before it becomes a problem. This is the first and most important layer of self-defense.

Physical Confidence

There's a specific kind of calm that comes from knowing you have options. Training builds that — not arrogance, but a grounded sense of capability that carries into every situation you encounter.

Injury-Aware Fitness

Sessions are designed with your body in mind. Footwork, coordination, balance, and functional mobility — developed through technique, not punishment.

Stress Management Under Pressure

Real self-defense is as much mental as physical. Training gradually builds your ability to stay composed, make decisions quickly, and respond rather than react when it matters most.

Self-Defense, Practically Defined

The goal isn't
to fight. It's to
not have to.

  • Awareness and de-escalation as primary tools
  • Setting boundaries clearly and with confidence
  • Understanding the force continuum — from exit to engagement
  • Stress inoculation: training the way you'll actually respond
  • Scenarios drawn from real contexts — travel, commuting, work, school, restaurants, home

Jas Singh - Self Defense Lab Instructor
Inosanto International Martial Arts Instructors Association Certified Guro Instructor in Filipino Martial Arts - Kali, Maphilindo Silat & Madjapahit Martial Arts, Lee Jun Fan Gung Fu and Jeet Kune Do
NW Kali Certified Instructor in Filipino Martial Arts, Maphilindo Silat, Lee Jun Fan Kickboxing
River City Warriors & Anibal Lobo Jiujitsu Purple belt in Gracie Jiujitsu
Training Since 1998 25+ years across FMA-Kali, JKD, Silat, BJJ, Thai Boxing
Teaching Since 2017 Private Instruction, Group Classes, & Corporate Workshops
FMA - Kali JKD Silat BJJ
The Instructor

Jaspreet "Jas" Singh

I came to self-defense out of necessity, but fell in love with martial arts. What these arts can teach you about awareness, confrontation, and composure under pressure is unlike anything else. I've trained since 1998 and taught since 2018.

I am also an international human rights lawyer, technologist, and artist, and have traveled extensively across 30 countries. Martial arts have been a steady foundation through a wide range of challenges—helping me navigate moments of physical risk, support others in crisis, and, most importantly, develop the situational awareness to recognize and avoid danger before it escalates.

My approach is direct and unhurried. I primarily teach adults, but I also work with young people, particularly those dealing with bullying or looking to build confidence early. I offer women's self-defense and corporate training as well. Every engagement is adapted for the individual.

Lineage

The Inosanto Academy of Martial Arts is one of the most respected institutions in the world, and I'm honored to have trained with many certified instructors from the Inosanto Instructor's Association, starting in 1998. I earned my first instructor certification in 2018 from NW Kali Chief Instructor Sifu Christopher Clarke and Class Instructor Guro Joseph Heller. I earned my certification directly under Guro Dan Inosanto in 2025.

I created Self Defense Lab because I believe competence builds confidence. Not the bravado kind — the quiet kind. The kind that changes how you move through the world.


Training & Curriculum

What training
actually looks like.

The curriculum is structured but never rigid. It adapts around what you need, what your body can do, and what your actual environment demands. Lab work: hypothesis, testing, refinement.

Sessions are methodical and purposeful. You'll understand why you're learning what you're learning, test it against realistic conditions, and adapt it to the spaces you actually move through — your commute, your home, your travel patterns.

A blend of Kali, JKD, Silat, and BJJ — explored not as tradition for tradition's sake, but as a toolkit you test, refine, and make your own.

The system emphasizes personal adaptation over rigid technique, environment-aware training, and honest experimentation over performance. You learn what actually functions — for your body, in your world.

Training Modalities

Striking & Trapping

Efficient, direct techniques for hitting effectively, controlling distance, and changing your opponent's reactions. Drawn from Kali, Silat, and JKD.

Clinch & Grappling

What happens when you're close and you can't get away. BJJ and Silat provide ground-tested answers without relying on athleticism to execute.

Edged, Impact, & Improvised Weapons

How to use weapons and what to do when one is present. Weapons training can serve as an equalizer to differences in size and strength.

Footwork & Timing

The foundation of everything. How you move determines whether techniques work or fail. We build footwork that controls distance, creates angles, and keeps you balanced under pressure.

Stress Management

Techniques practiced under progressively realistic conditions, so your body learns to function — not freeze — when adrenaline is present. Lab testing: small doses of controlled pressure.

Decision-Making

Where you position yourself — on a sidewalk, in a subway car, in your own hallway — matters as much as what you do with your body. Training sharpens your ability to read space, assess context, and respond with clarity.

Structure of a Session

Every session follows
a deliberate arc.

01

Warm-Up

Movement, coordination, and joint preparation. Sets the tone without rushing you.

02

Technical Work

The core of the session. New material or deepening existing skills — always explained, never just demonstrated.

03

Drilling

Repetition with purpose. Techniques become reliable through practice.

04

Stress-Proofing

Applied scenarios that build your response under pressure. Graduated to your current level.

05

Reflection

Recovery, reflection, and what you can work on before our next session.

Private Lessons

Your training.
Your terms.

Private instruction means the curriculum adapts to you — not the other way around. Every session is built around your goals, your schedule, and your body.

Solo

1:1 Private

The most focused way to train. Your instructor's full attention, every session — no distractions, no shared time.

  • Entirely personalized curriculum
  • Fastest path to real competence
  • Ideal for beginners and serious learners alike
  • Flexible location: your space or a shared venue
Partner

Partner Private

Train with someone you already know and trust — a partner, friend, or family member. Partner drilling is one of the fastest ways to develop real responsiveness.

  • Two-person sessions, split cost
  • Built-in drilling partner from session one
  • Great for couples, friends, or colleagues
  • Curriculum adapted to both participants
Small Group

Micro-Group

Pop-up training cycles for groups of 3–6. The intimacy of private instruction with the energy of a small team. Available on a rotating schedule.

  • 3–6 participants maximum
  • Scheduled in cycles (inquire for current availability)
  • Lower per-person investment than 1:1
  • Same curriculum depth, adapted for group dynamics

Scheduling & Logistics

  • Equipment Loaner training tools provided. No need to buy gear before your first session.
  • Location Training comes to you, or we meet at a mutually convenient venue in NJ or NYC.
  • Packages Single sessions and packages available. Contact to discuss what makes sense for your goals.
  • Pricing Rates are discussed directly. Contact to inquire — no forms, no runaround.

 

  • Availability Flexible scheduling, including evenings and weekends. Travel-aware — sessions can pause and resume around your schedule.
  • Travel Frequent traveler? No problem. Training is designed to accommodate gaps. You pick back up where you left off.
  • Cancellation Life happens. Just give me 24-hour notice and we'll reschedule your session, no penalty.

Ready to begin — or just have questions? Either way, reach out.

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Corporate & Organizational Training

Workshops for teams and organizations.

Self Defense Lab offers tailored workshops for teams and organizations — from corporate offices to nonprofits. Training can include situational awareness, de-escalation, and appropriate physical response for staff who work in unpredictable environments. Programs are designed around your team's specific context and needs.

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Common Questions

Things people ask
before reaching out.

No question is too basic here. These are the real things people want to know before committing to training.

Am I too out of shape, too old, or too inexperienced to start?

No. The curriculum is built around you — your body, your fitness level, your history. There is no baseline requirement, and sessions are never structured around pushing you to a physical limit. We start where you are.

I travel frequently. Can I still train consistently?

Yes — this is one of the reasons private instruction works better than group classes for many people. Your training plan adjusts to your schedule. Gaps are normal, expected, and accounted for. You pick up where you left off, no catch-up embarrassment required.

Do I need to buy any gear or equipment?

Not for your first session — or your first several. Loaner equipment is provided. If you continue training and want your own tools, you'll get clear guidance on exactly what to buy and where. Nothing overpriced, nothing unnecessary.

Will we spar? Is it safe?

Sparring is introduced gradually and only when it's appropriate to your level and goals — it is never a default expectation. Safety is a design principle here, not an afterthought.

What about injuries — I've had one / I'm managing something.

Bring it up before the first session. Injuries and physical considerations are built into curriculum planning from the start. Training works around what you're dealing with — not through it. Many students find that thoughtful training actually supports recovery and long-term joint health.

Is this like MMA or what I see in combat sports?

Yes and no. There are elements of what you see in MMA that you will practice. However, MMA is a sport with rules, weight classes, mats, and a competitive goal. Unfortunately, because of the popularity of MMA, its increasingly common for aggressors to use what they see on TV. We train self-defense — the martial skills, awareness, and decision-making needed in real, unstructured situations, including those that include these elements.

What are Kali, JKD, Silat, and BJJ?

Kali (also called Eskrima or Arnis) is the national martial art of the Philippines — renowned for weapons training and the transferable concept of flow. Many modern hand to hand military and law enforcement combatives training comes from Kali. JKD (Jeet Kune Do) was developed by Bruce Lee as a framework for adaptable, efficient fighting; we train elements of Thai Kickboxing, French Savate, Wing Chun, and western boxing as part of this framework. Silat is a Southeast Asian art focused on close-range position and striking to disrupt balance, alongside compressive trips and throws. BJJ is Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, a system that emphasizes grappling, joint-locks, and chokes, enabling smaller people to neutralize larger threats. Together they form a complete system. I focus on BJJ for self-defense as opposed to competition oriented sports jiujitsu.

How is pricing handled?

Rates are discussed directly — there's no price page, no packages buried in a checkout flow. Reach out, share your goals and availability, and we'll find a structure that works. No runaround, no upselling.


Get in Touch

Start a conversation.
No commitment required.

Whether you're ready to book or just want to ask questions first, reach out. An intro session is available; it's the easiest way to get a feel for the training before deciding anything.

Location New Jersey & New York City. Training comes to you, or we meet at a mutually convenient venue.
Availability Flexible scheduling including evenings and weekends.
Response All inquiries answered personally by Jas, typically within 48 hours.
Contact Reach out via the form here, or if you prefer a phone call or text, reach out at 646-481-7123.
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